Recently, Internet celebrity Han Anran's remarks have caused widespread controversy, she publicly said that she plans to have three children, but the premise is that "if it is a son after pregnancy, it will be kept, and if it is a daughter, it will be killed", she said that this is to prove that she can have a son.

As soon as this remark was exposed, it immediately triggered a strong reaction from netizens, many people criticized her approach for being suspected of being patriarchal, and thought that her attitude towards life was extremely disrespectful, Han Anran already had two daughters before, this time she publicly said that she hoped to have a son through the third child, and even bluntly said that if it was a daughter, she would choose to have an abortion.

This idea has caused widespread discussion, and many netizens are angry, believing that she takes the gender of her children as the standard for measuring the value of life, completely ignoring the dignity and meaning of life itself, and some netizens pointed out that Han Anran's remarks will not only convey wrong values, but also may contribute to the existence of some gender biases in society and bring unnecessary psychological burden to women.

In modern society, gender equality has become a universal social consensus, especially in the attitude towards life, we should uphold the principle of respect and tolerance, every life should be cherished, whether male or female, should enjoy equal rights and opportunities.

And Han Anran's remarks undoubtedly make people feel that she despises her daughter's life, and even regards childbirth as a proof of "ability", this mentality is obviously contrary to modern civilization, in this regard, many people call on public figures to speak more cautiously, especially when it comes to sensitive topics such as life and family, and should reflect respect for every life.

Both boys and girls are independent and precious individuals, worthy of the love and cherishment of their parents and society. In the end, Han Anran's remarks are not only a matter of family choice, but also a deep reflection on values, social responsibility and respect for life.